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Preparing for Holiday Expenses

By | Lifestyle

The holiday season is supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year, but between gifts, decorations, and travel, it’s easy for spending to get out of control. In fact, the National Retail Federation (NRF) has forecasted that holiday retail sales for 2025 will surpass $1 trillion for the first time, a sign that people are still spending even though many households feel the strain of higher costs and interest rates. Here are some tips and tricks to help you stay organized and enjoy the season without stressing about money.

  1. The 50-30-10-10 Holiday Budget Plan

Before shopping begins, take time to create a list of who you’re buying for and set a realistic spending limit for gifts. Gift-giving is an important part of the holidays, but there are plenty of budget-friendly options to help you enjoy the season without guilt or overspending. Breaking down your budget into categories and tracking your expenses is a smart way to stay within your limits. While you should adjust your budget to fit your unique situation, a good starting point is the 50-30-10-10 approach: gifts (50%), parties and dining (30%), decorations (10%), and miscellaneous expenses (10%).

  1. Get Creative: Gifting And Décor

You can save money while giving thoughtful gifts and making your home festive without overspending. Try DIY projects by crafting your own gifts or decorations or upcycle items you already have. Shopping secondhand or thrifting can uncover unique presents and décor items. You can also swap decorations with friends and family, reuse items from previous years, or even regift (which works especially well for versatile items like gift cards). With a little creativity, you can make both your gifts and your space intentional and memorable on a budget.

  1. Meaningful Gifting

Sometimes memories and experiences hold more value than material gifts, depending on the person you’re giving to. Consider planning a family outing, hosting a cozy movie night or holiday baking day, or gifting an experience such as tickets to “The Nutcracker,” a local concert, or a day of ice skating. You can also give practical gifts that make experiences possible, such as travel gift cards or airline miles for family members or friends who visit from out of town. This thoughtful approach helps prioritize connection and shared joy over consumption.

  1. Wrap Thoughtfully, Waste Less

This isn’t about being a penny pincher; it’s about being intentional with your spending and gifting with care, consciousness, and common sense. Did you know roughly 2.3 million pounds of wrapping paper end up in landfills every year? Instead of spending on gift wrap that will end up in the trash, look for stores that offer free wrapping services or gift boxes, and reuse packaging whenever possible. Many retailers even offer prepackaged gift specials that save time and waste. You can also get creative with wrapping by using newspapers, repurposed tissue paper, or other materials you already have at home. A fun and budget-friendly idea for families is to buy a roll of kraft paper for the kids to decorate, or to use their existing artwork as a personal and memorable gift wrap.

  1. Use Cashback Offers, Credit Cards, and Reward Points

Stretch your holiday budget by using credit card points, loyalty points, frequent flier miles, or gift cards. Instead of spending cash, you would be tapping into rewards and resources you’ve already earned. Using cashback credit cards or shopping on cashback sites is a great way to ensure you’re getting something back when you spend. This strategy works best for those who already use credit cards responsibly and want to maximize the benefits of their spending. Just be sure to pay your credit card in full when it’s due to avoid interest charges or late fees.

  1. Wallet-Friendly Celebrations

Consider hosting a potluck dinner where everyone contributes a dish or plan a gift exchange such as Secret Santa or a White Elephant party to ensure everyone receives a gift while keeping costs low. If you’re hosting, think about borrowing supplies like tables, chairs, and serving items instead of renting or buying them. And, if you don’t have any plans but want to have fun or get active in your community, look into local free events such as church-sponsored events, concerts, or holiday parades. You can usually find information on community boards, local news sites, or social media.

  1. Stay Proactive Throughout The Year

Avoid the stress of last-minute buying by planning ahead and staying proactive. Even with a budget in place, it’s easy to lose track during the hectic holiday season. Monitoring your spending and setting aside money throughout the year helps you stay accountable and on track. For example, if you save $50 each month, by December you’ll have $600 dedicated to holiday spending. You can even automate this process with direct transfers to a holiday savings account. Starting your shopping early also helps spread out expenses and take advantage of seasonal sales for significant discounts. By saving and shopping throughout the year, you’ll reduce financial stress and be better prepared for the holidays.

Being prepared for holiday expenses means focusing on what truly matters and being intentional with your spending. By setting limits, shopping smart, planning ahead, and prioritizing meaningful purchases, you can create lasting memories and enjoy the holiday season without financial stress or regret.

 

 

 

Sources:

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/us-retail-growth-signals-upbeat-092656778.html

https://www.forbes.com/sites/truetamplin/article/holiday-budget/

https://www.fidelity.com/learning-center/smart-money/holiday-budgeting

https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/personalfinance/how-to-budget-for-a-stress-free-christmas-this-year-12-practical-tips/ss-AA1vCd93

https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/christmas-on-a-budget-9-easy-money-saving-holiday-tips/

https://www.minted.com/lp/christmas-preparation-checklist

https://raleighnc.gov/landfill-and-reuse/news/take-steps-decrease-holiday-waste

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Halloween Candy Unwrapped: What’s Your Favorite Treat?

By | Lifestyle

What was once a simple night of costumes and handmade treats has become a multi-billion-dollar industry. In fact, Americans spent nearly $12 billion on Halloween in 2024, and $3 billion of that went to candy alone. Since individually wrapped treats became the standard in the 1950s, Halloween candy has only grown in scale and spectacle. Today, large retailers like Walmart and Target stock massive assortments and bulk buying is the norm. But it isn’t just about cost and convenience, candy trends have shifted with each generation. Here is a look at how Halloween candy has evolved through the decades.

Sweet Beginnings: Pre-1950s

What came first, candy or Halloween? Believe it or not, ancient civilizations were enjoying honey-based confections long before Halloween traditions developed. Still, the modern candy era didn’t take shape until Joseph Fry debuted the first molded chocolate bar in 1847. Candy Corn, Wrigley’s Chewing Gum, and Tootsie Rolls soon followed, and by 1900, Hershey’s Milk Chocolate bar hit the market (selling for 5 cents per bar).  The cocoa and sugar craze led the candy industry to focus on basic mixtures like chocolate, caramel, and peanuts.

The roaring ‘20s introduced classics like Baby Ruth, Mounds, Milky Way, and Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups and the 1930s added Snickers, 3 Musketeers, and Tootsie Roll Pops to the mix. The confectionary boom continued into the 1940s with the invention of M&Ms, although the candy-coated pieces didn’t receive their iconic “M” stamp until 1950. These candies became household names and continue to dominate candy culture today, feeding the American sweet tooth. But the candy world wasn’t destined to stay sweet and simple.

The Rise of Fruity Flavors: 1950s & 1960s

Candy and Halloween became synonymous in the 1950s. Postwar suburban life encouraged trick-or-treating, and candy companies took advantage of the commercial opportunity by actively marketing kid-friendly, individually wrapped candies specifically for handing out. Although children continued to enjoy confectionery sweets, from enduring classics to once-popular treats like the Abba-Zaba taffy bar with its peanut butter center, American culture soon ushered in a more playful attitude. Bolder colors brightened everything from fashion to the candy aisle. Fruzola, a recent invention, was a fruit-flavored powder originally intended to be mixed with water to make a sweet drink. But kids had other ideas. They started downing the sugar straight from the packet, leading to the creation of the iconic Pixy Stix, six-inch paper tubes containing a variety of flavors like grape, orange, and cherry.

In the 1960s, fruit-flavored candy reigned supreme. Americans were introduced to Now & Later fruit chews, Lemonheads, SweeTarts, and one candy that remains in the top 10 most popular Halloween candies to this day: Starburst, originally sold under the name, “Opal Fruits,” in the original flavors of strawberry, lemon, orange, and lime, which are still available today. The name change was intentional, relating to the Space Race between the Soviet Union and the U.S. and resonated better with a global audience.

The Rise of Sour and Tangy Treats: 1970s & 1980s

Often considered the golden age for candy, the 70s and 80s brought television commercials with catchy jingles and playful characters that established an emotional connected with children. Fruit-flavored candies still prevailed in the 1970s with the introduction of Skittles, and the Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup gained even more fame with the release of Reese’s Pieces. The true innovation was the emergence of candy you could play with. The unique and explosive experience of Pop Rocks made it an instant sensation and Ring Pops quickly became a favorite among kids who loved the idea of edible jewelry.

Airheads hit the market in the 1980s, becoming a popular choice among candy lovers who appreciated a balance of sweet and sour. Sour Patch Kids also arrived at the scene, influenced by both the sour and sweet trend and the success of Cabbage Patch Kids. Additionally, Trolli gummy worms were released and featured in the blockbuster Ghostbusters, which helped it rise to fame. Candy innovation hit a peak with the launch of Nerds, which distinguished itself by its packaging and taste profile.

Extreme Flavors and Sensory Experiences: The 1990s & 2000s

These notorious decades were known for their over-the-top extremes. Although Warheads were created in Taiwan in the 70s, they were introduced to U.S. markets in the 90s and quickly became a defining part of the 90s culture. Caramel Apple Pops released and became one of the most-desired Halloween candies displaying a color similar to Nickelodeon’s iconic green slime, which was a symbol of kids’ entertainment. Gushers and Baby Bottle Pops were other notable candies that centered on delivering a sensory experience and multi-layered flavor profile.

By the 2000s, the Harry Potter series had become a cornerstone of global pop culture. Capitalizing on its immense popularity, Jelly Belly launched Bertie Bott’s Every Flavor Beans, a famous treat from the wizarding world brought in an interactive form for readers. Although the ongoing publication of the books helped keep the buzz alive, it was the blockbuster film adaptations that amplified commercial impact and cemented the jellybeans into the franchise culture.

Next-Gen Candy: 2010s & 2020s

Previous decades have pushed the candy industry to innovate at record speed, responding to pop culture moments and digital influence faster than ever before. A prime example is the 2018 U.S. debut of Kinder Surprise, also known as the Kinder Egg, a globally beloved chocolate egg with a mystery toy inside that gained popularity from social media. Its release was highly anticipated, and since then, Kinder has remained successful in making their treats more appealing by launching exclusive editions featuring brand collaborations with Paw Patrol, Harry Potter, and even the NBA.

Halloween candy aisles now showcase a mix of nostalgic classics and attention-grabbing new treats, proving that even today, the focus is as much about the experience as it is about the taste. Yet through all these changes, one thing remains constant: whether it’s a chocolate bar or a lip puckering sour treat, candy continues to be at the heart of the holiday.

Sources:

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Disclosure:

Investment Advisory Services offered through Trek Financial LLC, an investment adviser registered with the Securities Exchange Commission. Information presented is for educational purposes only. It should not be considered specific investment advice, does not take into consideration your specific situation, and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any securities or investment strategies. Investments involve risk and are not guaranteed, and past performance is no guarantee of future results. For specific tax advice on any strategy, consult with a qualified tax professional before implementing any strategy discussed herein. The content is developed from sources believed to be providing accurate information; no warranty, expressed or implied, is made regarding accuracy, adequacy, completeness, legality, reliability, or usefulness of any information. Consult your financial professional before making any investment decision. Trek 25-342

 

Your Ultimate Guide to a Budget-Friendly Game Day

By | Lifestyle

There’s nothing like the excitement of game day! But after spending money on tickets, transportation, food, drinks, and apparel, the costs can add up fast. Whether you prefer heading to the stadium, catching the action at a sports bar, or hosting your own watch party at home, there are plenty of ways to enjoy your favorite team without breaking the bank. We’ve put together a quick guide for all options when it comes to having a good time while still staying within your budget.

At the Stadium

The journey of a game day starts with buying your tickets. If you’re flexible, consider waiting until the last minute to purchase because resale sites like SeatGeek or StubHub often offer steep discounts right before kickoff. Don’t forget to check for group discounts, student rates, or military deals that many teams offer. To stretch your dollars even further, you can use cash-back or rewards apps like Honey when purchasing.

Once your tickets are secured, it’s time to plan your trip to the stadium. Parking can be expensive, so carpooling with friends is a great way to split the cost of gas and parking. With a little research, you might even find free or cheaper parking zones a short walk from the stadium. Depending on your budget and willingness to walk, consider taking public transit like local buses or trams.

Before the game, try organizing a tailgate with friends. Bringing your own food and drinks not only keeps costs down but also adds to the fun of game day. Sharing supplies helps to ensure everyone contributes and no one overspends. If tailgating isn’t an option, check the stadium’s rules because some venues allow you to bring in small snacks or empty water bottles, which can help you avoid the high prices of stadium concessions.

Watching the Game Out

Sports bars fill up quickly on game day, so if you can, reserve a table early to grab a good seat. Always check for game day deals at your favorite bars and restaurants. Many extend happy hours, offer food and drink specials, or even give discounts if you show up in team gear. With so many places now hosting their own watch parties to attract fans, look for bars that support your team to enjoy the full experience. Local breweries, in particular, tend to offer better prices and a team-spirited atmosphere. To make your outing even more budget-friendly, once again, use rewards apps or cashback credit cards for your purchases and split the cost of food and drinks with friends.

Hosting a Watch Party

Staying home to watch the game is almost always the most affordable option. Start by deciding what foods are your favorite like wings, sliders, or big batches of tacos, chili, or bean dip. Then make a shopping list and buy in bulk from warehouse stores like Costco or Sam’s Club. This helps you save money while ensuring you have plenty for everyone. You can even invite friends to bring their favorite game day dish, turning your gathering into an affordable potluck. Instead of stocking a full bar, prepare one or two signature drinks in big pitchers or a large punch bowl.

As you set up, add a personal touch by making your own decorations. Use construction paper, paint, or print out team logos to create a festive atmosphere. Don’t buy new party supplies; instead, ask if you can borrow folding chairs, tables, or coolers from friends or neighbors, and repurpose household items for serving and seating. Once everything is ready, all that’s left is to relax and enjoy the game!

 

Football season is all about coming together and making memories no matter what your budget is. With a little creativity and planning, you can make the most out of game day without missing any of the action. Gather your friends, put on your team colors, and get ready to cheer without the financial penalty flag!

 

Sources:

https://fangirlclothing.com/blogs/news/game-day-on-a-budget-a-complete-money-saving-guide?srsltid=AfmBOopTrjq5xOiHNHBdWihum3IZNXkY0vg2j7fGOjxYSlb3GWCKKHle

Disclosure:

Investment Advisory Services offered through Trek Financial LLC, an investment adviser registered with the Securities Exchange Commission. Information presented is for educational purposes only. It should not be considered specific investment advice, does not take into consideration your specific situation, and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any securities or investment strategies. Investments involve risk and are not guaranteed, and past performance is no guarantee of future results. For specific tax advice on any strategy, consult with a qualified tax professional before implementing any strategy discussed herein. The content is developed from sources believed to be providing accurate information; no warranty, expressed or implied, is made regarding accuracy, adequacy, completeness, legality, reliability, or usefulness of any information. Consult your financial professional before making any investment decision. Trek 25-318

Try This Healthy Recipe Over Labor Day Weekend

By | Lifestyle

Just as balance is key to a successful financial portfolio, it is also essential in your meals, combining the right nutrients to fuel your energy and well-being. The 2025 Viral Cottage Cheese Sweet Potato Beef Bowl has taken the internet by storm, earning glowing reviews from dietitians and everyday eaters alike, quickly becoming a favorite among all demographics. Here’s the simple recipe for achieving the perfect balance of flavor and nutrition.

What you’ll need

3 medium-sized sweet potatoes – diced into cubes

1 lb lean ground beef

2 cups cottage cheese

1-2 tbsp olive or avocado oil

2-3 fresh avocados – diced or sliced

Hot honey

1/3 cup of water – if needed

3 tbsp taco seasoning – homemade or store bought

Seasonings of your choice – salt, black pepper, and cinnamon

Viral Cottage Cheese Sweet Potato Beef Bowl

  1. Prep: Preheat your oven to 425 °F.
  2. Bake sweet potatoes: Peel and wash the sweet potatoes, then cut into cubes. In a large bowl, combine olive oil, cubed sweet potatoes, and seasonings of your choice (salt, pepper, and a touch of cinnamon). Spead onto a baking sheet and bake for 25 to 30 minutes, or until potatoes are fork-tender, flipping them halfway through.
  3. Make the taco beef: In a skillet, brown the ground beef over medium heat. Drain any excess grease, then add taco seasoning. If needed, add a bit of water for extra moisture. Set aside.
  4. Build your bowl: Add sweet potatoes, taco-seasoned ground beef, cottage cheese, and fresh avocado. Garnish with a drizzle of hot honey—and enjoy!

This viral recipe lives up to the hype, having the potential to become a classic staple in households everywhere. With protein-packed beef and cottage cheese at its core, it delivers the perfect blend of creamy, spicy, sweet, and savory. The balanced textures keep each bite interesting, and the quick prep makes it ideal for busy weeknights or weekend meal prep. Though perfect year-round, this recipe is a delicious way to wrap up summer with a meal that’s simple, satisfying, and smart.

 

Sources:

https://myproteinpantry.com/hot-honey-ground-beef-bowls/

https://www.5boysbaker.com/viral-cottage-cheese-sweet-potato-ground-beef-bowls/

 

Investment Advisory Services offered through Trek Financial LLC, an investment adviser registered with the Securities Exchange Commission. Information presented is for educational purposes only. It should not be considered specific investment advice, does not take into consideration your specific situation, and does not intend to make an offer or solicitation for the sale or purchase of any securities or investment strategies. Investments involve risk and are not guaranteed, and past performance is no guarantee of future results. For specific tax advice on any strategy, consult with a qualified tax professional before implementing any strategy discussed herein. The content is developed from sources believed to be providing accurate information; no warranty, expressed or implied, is made regarding accuracy, adequacy, completeness, legality, reliability, or usefulness of any information. Consult your financial professional before making any investment decision. Trek 25-293

Navigating Holiday Sales without Breaking the Bank

By | Lifestyle

Thanksgiving brings up many traditions. From watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade to enjoying family dishes passed down for generations, there’s so much to look forward to. One tradition that excites countless Americans is Black Friday, and the more recent addition to it, Cyber Monday. These major sales kick off the holiday shopping season. While it might seem exciting to embrace spending money in the name of price markdowns and holiday cheer, it’s important to keep your finances in mind. Here are some tips to get the most out of these sales without breaking the bank.

  1. Know Your Budget

Before even thinking about all the goodies you want to buy, look at your current finances and understand how much you realistically can spend. A big sale should not come at the expense of your financial goals. If you want to get into the nitty-gritty, you can allocate funds to specific categories like electronics, appliances, beauty, sports, etc. Using cash or prepaid credit cards can also help if you are really concerned about overspending.

  1. Make Your List, and Check it Twice

The best way to avoid buying too much is to know what you need to buy in the first place. Make a list of what you plan to buy and stick to it. Once you know what you need, prioritize everything on your list. If you can’t afford everything, a prioritized list will help you decide what to buy now, and what you can put off buying later. On top of that, go back through it a second time and compare the prices to make sure you’re actually saving. If a Black Friday sale only offers 5% off, or a future sale offers more off, it may make more sense for your budget to push that purchase out, so it doesn’t create as much of a strain on your finances.

  1. Avoid Buyer’s Remorse

Many post-sale shoppers are plagued by buyer’s remorse. Making a list is not enough to avoid buying things you don’t need; you must stick to that list. This way you can steer clear of impulse purchases and stay on track with your budget. If for some reason you still find something not on your list that you feel compelled to buy, take a moment to pause and honestly assess if this additional purchase will be beneficial to you. You can do this by closing your eyes and breathing in to the count of four. Fill your belly with air, then hold that breath for the count of eight, and then finally exhale from your belly for the count of four. While doing this, remind yourself not every deal is a must-have and the small amount of regret over not getting something will likely not outweigh the regret of overspending your budget.

  1. Remember, You Have Other Opportunities to Shop and Save

It’s important to highlight that a lot of sales go throughout the entire holiday season now. While Black Friday is still a major sale, it’s not the only sale. Despite this, sales like Black Friday will market themselves as a once in a season opportunity and use tactics that encourage you to buy more than you need. Do your best to refrain from this scarcity mindset that makes you think you need to buy everything during one specific sale. You can ease your mind that if you can’t get something you want on that day, there will likely be another opportunity later in the holiday season.

If you need help defining your budget for the holiday shopping season, give us a call! You can reach Bulwark Capital Management in Tacoma, Washington at 253.509.0395.

 

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Financial Vows for Money-Savvy Couples

By | Financial Planning, Lifestyle

February is a good time to celebrate your relationship with your significant other—and renew your commitment to your mutual financial success. Here are some ideas to say “I do” to this month.

  • Vow to protect yourselves from emergencies

During the government shutdown early this year we learned that 40% of Americans don’t have enough money set aside to handle even a $400 emergency. Whether you determine you want an amount equal to six months’ or 12 months’ worth of living expenses, vow to set aside an emergency fund in liquid, readily-accessible accounts so that you have adequate cash on hand should you need it.

  • Vow to protect your family finances by shifting risk

Along the same lines as an emergency fund, work with a financial advisor to determine how much risk you both face from other potentially life-altering events. What would happen if one of you suddenly became unable to work or function due to a disability? What if you required nursing care? What if one of you suddenly passed away?

Insurance companies offer policies designed to shift many of life’s unexpected financial risks away from your family. Be sure to compare policies offered by multiple highly-rated insurance companies to help ensure you get the best coverage for your premium dollar.

  • Vow to put an estate plan in place (or update your current plan)

If one or both of you have children from a previous marriage, make sure all of your documents are in order so that family squabbling is reduced to a minimum if one of you predeceases the other. Most experts say that you should have at least some of your assets transfer immediately lest one of you remarries or other circumstances change and money that you expected would pass to your biological children gets spent by an unintended party.

Similarly, did you know that the beneficiaries you designate on retirement accounts and insurance policies and similar accounts take precedence over your wills and/or trusts? If you haven’t looked at that old 401(k) for decades, chances are that your ex-spouse might inherit that money regardless of your true wishes or life circumstances at the time of your death.

All of your documents need to be reviewed on a regular basis—let’s get together as soon as possible.

  • Vow to make saving and retirement planning a priority for you both

Even though retirement accounts are held separately, it’s important to have a shared vision about your retirement together. Be sure to meet with your retirement planner or financial advisor to discuss your future goals and time horizon. Other financial goals should also be prioritized so that you’re both on the same page, like saving up for the kids’ college expenses or the daughters’ weddings.

  • Vow not to keep secrets about money and keep the communication flowing

Hopefully you’ve been honest from the beginning of your relationship about your level of debt, how you handle sticking to a budget, or whether or not you have a low credit score. Understanding each other’s financial position and money habits is the first part of being able to take control of your finances together in order to achieve mutual goals as a couple.

And remember that it’s important that both of you understands your overall combined financial picture, even if one of you pays the bills or the other takes the lead role in investing. Don’t delegate this, make it a point to stay in the loop with financial decisions. Even if you have separate bank accounts to handle the day-to-day finances, you both need to understand where you’re at and where you’re headed when it comes to your financial future as a couple, especially your plan for retirement.

Even if it doesn’t seem exactly romantic, talking about money can make your relationship a more perfect union for the long-term. Aiming “for richer” rather than “for poorer” together can strengthen your matrimonial bonds.

We’re here to help. Call us at Bulwark Capital Management in Silverdale, Washington at 253.509.0395.

 

Sources:
CNN, “40% of Americans can’t cover a $400 emergency expense.” https://money.cnn.com/2018/05/22/pf/emergency-expenses-household-finances/index.html (accessed February 11, 2019).
Forbes, “6 Financial Vows Couples Should Take To Heart.” https://www.forbes.com/sites/judithward/2019/01/23/6-financial-vows-couples-should-take-to-heart/?ss=personalfinance#1a8149385241 (accessed February 11, 2019).

 

Managing Your Finances

By | Lifestyle

We work with dozens of people to help them create retirement plans. But in order to get to a successful retirement, there are thousands of small decisions along the way. Like, should you drive through your local coffee place and grab a latte this morning? Go with the office gang for lunch at that little bistro across the street, which usually costs you around $15? Should you order pizza delivered for dinner tonight because you didn’t go to the grocery store yesterday? Grab that new shirt because it’s 50% off?

Sticking to a budget is the beginning of mastering your money. But why do so many of us find it difficult?

A recent article in Forbes magazine may hold some clues as well as ideas about how to take control of your discretionary expenses. The author, Thomas Dichter, advocates writing every expenditure down, to the penny, as well as calculating how well you met your budget on an annual basis. (He usually comes within 1% of his goal, and many times comes in under, which he attributes to his meticulous record-keeping.)

Mr. Dichter explains how he started the process:

I forced myself to write down what I had spent under each category. After a week my inner accountant had emerged and I kept at it. By month six I noticed something magical: the act of tracking expenses had a feedback effect on my spending. My expenses in the categories that all of us tend to ignore (take-out food and coffee, a candy bar at a vending machine, impulse buying a shirt, or a magazine at the check out line, etc.) were going down, not because I wanted to deny myself, but because I could see what was happening.

At the end of that first full year those few minutes a day of what became compulsive recording paid off. It took me about a half hour to add up each category and then total it all (a side benefit became obvious when I had to do my taxes). Then I compared that total to my take-home income for the year and saw I was ahead, for the first time in my life. I decided to do a budget for the next year, using the past year’s expenses as a guide. At the end of that year I saw I had come within 1% of my budget estimate. Passing that self-imposed test soon became an annual goal. Each year on December 31st, I see how close I’ve come to my budget estimate of twelve months earlier. Usually I come within that 1%, sometimes over but more often under.

The author goes on to say that he believes that easy access to credit, along with an economy based on consumption, contributes to the overspending problem in America. And the main excuse for resisting his simple method—“I don’t have time”—is just a cover story for other, deeper reasons. For example, he believes that some people don’t really want to know what they spend, because it might rock their feeling that “everything is okay.” Some operate on the subconscious wavelength that it’s better to risk their financial future rather than turn into some kind of accounting nerd or tightwad.

As financial advisors who work with people every single day, we are here to tell you that managing your finances is possible, and might even be easier than you think. Let’s talk. Call us at Bulwark Capital Management in Silverdale, Washington at 253.509.0395.

 

Source:
“A New Year’s Resolution To Manage Your Finances: Why Is Sticking To It So Hard?” by Thomas Dichter, Contributor, Forbes.com. https://www.forbes.com/sites/thomasdichter/2019/01/01/a-new-years-resolution-to-manage-your-finances-why-is-it-so-hard/#38ef8202106f (accessed January 14, 2019).

 

5 Tips for Setting Better New Year’s Resolutions

By | Financial Planning, Lifestyle

If you typically give up on your goals by March, you’re not alone. Try these tips for 2019.

  1. Go ahead and set them again.

Even if you’re one of the majority of people who have set New Year’s Resolutions in the past but gave up on them within a few weeks, try again. Because there is good news about setting goals, even if you haven’t quite mastered the follow-through.

According to one study published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology, people who set New Year’s resolutions are 10 times more likely to actually change their behavior than people who don’t make these yearly goals. Tony Robbins says, “Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.” So go ahead and write down your objectives for 2019.

  1. Make sure you actually want what you say you want.

Some of the most common resolutions include losing weight, making better financial choices, and eating healthier. All of these sound great—if they’re what you really want. For instance, make sure losing weight is your desire, not something you read about—or a photo you compared yourself to—in a magazine.

If you typically set goals for things you think you should want, instead of what you really do want, you will not succeed because you’re not really motivated. (And frankly, who cares, because you didn’t want that stuff anyway.) Dig deep this year to try to find out what your deepest desires are, and why.

  1. Replace a bad habit with a good habit.

At the end of the day, goals are one thing, but day-to-day habits are another. An article in Psychology Today puts it this way:

“A lot of New Year’s resolutions have to do with making new habits or changing existing ones. If your resolutions are around things like eating healthier, exercising more, drinking less, quitting smoking, texting less, spending more time ‘unplugged’ or any number of other ‘automatic’ behaviors then we are talking about changing existing habits or making new habits. Habits are automatic, ‘conditioned’ responses. You get up in the morning and stop at Starbucks for a pastry and a latte. You go home at the end of work and plop down in front of the TV.”

According to the article, there are three facets necessary to changing habits. You must choose a small action, attach it to an existing habit, and make it easy to do for three to seven days in a row.

For example, “Get more exercise” is not small. “Take the stairs each morning to get to my office, not the elevator” is a small, actionable, better resolution to make. Your existing habit of walking to the elevator can be changed to walking to the stairs, and it will become a new habit within just a week of practice.

  1. Create a new “story” about yourself.

“The best (and some would say the only) way to get a large and long-term behavior change, is by changing your self-story,” according to science.

Whether you realize it or not, you make decisions based on staying true to your unconscious self-stories, and you strive to be consistent. If you have a story about yourself that you are “realistic” because of things that have knocked you down in the past, you may have a story about yourself that keeps you in a state of cynicism about your life.

You can rewrite any story you have about yourself that might be holding you back. It’s kind of like writing a script for your own movie—you are the lead character, and the movie is your life unfolding. Instead of Mr. Cynic, moping along chained to his past, you are now your own hero, Mr. Positive, who takes new actions every day to improve the lives of others based on his experiences.

“The technique of story-editing is so simple that it doesn’t seem possible that it can result in such deep and profound change. But the research shows that one re-written self-story can make all the difference.”

  1. Tell people—or not.

For some people, telling their friends and family members keeps them on-track, holding them more accountable on the path to achieving their resolutions. But if you have friends and relatives who tend to shoot holes in your dreams, or sabotage your goals in subtle or obvious ways, keep your goals to yourself.

Consider surrounding yourself with supportive people for the year, limiting communication to “small talk” with people who aren’t on board. Take notice of people who drain your energy instead of energize you, and make choices accordingly. You have the perfect right to say “no” or “yes” more often to the activities you decide to engage in, and the people you elect to spend time with.

Have we scheduled your annual review? Let’s meet and review your financial plan in light of next year’s short- and long-term objectives. Please call Bulwark Capital Management in Silverdale, Washington at 253.509.0395 or email us at invest@bulwarkcapitalmgmt.com.